Hello Readers,
Refuse to dance to the tune of other people’s control and work on putting a plan into action that will prepare you to sever the ties that bind you to a person or situation you have outgrown and feel very unhappy about. It takes courage to grow up and know who you really are because maturing is a difficult and arduous journey that is filled with complicating and testing experiences.
Seeking the approval of others is both time wasting and non-productive and life is too short worrying what other people think about you. Making a good first impression is important because you only get one shot at it, but there also comes a time when you have wake up and realise that it’s your opinion of yourself that matters more than what anyone else thinks about the way you look and how you choose to live your life. Every second that you spend doubting yourself, every moment that you use to criticism to pull yourself down, you are playing into the hands of those who are happy to exploit the relationship between you with the intention of furthering themselves rather than you.
As long as you go against your better judgment, believing that someone else’s opinion is superior to yours, you are setting yourself up for disappointment and heartbreak. You will never gain anyone’s respect by begging for it. When you stand confident knowing your own worth, you release yourself from the emotional and mental shackles and chains that restrict your spiritual growth, self-development and progress. How you love and see yourself projects your most inner and deepest feelings giving out a clear signal to others as to how you expect and insist to be treated. By setting down important boundaries, you dictate what behavior is acceptable and what is not. When you are happy and content inwardly, you project the same energy outwardly, thus succeeding in attracting positive frequencies that complement and enhance your vibrations. In simple terms, it means you are in charge of your own life.
Ask yourself one very important question. Have you ever loved someone so much that you would do anything for them? Would you do anything at all just to make sure that they were happy and well? If so, do exactly the same or whatever it takes to make yourself happy because if you do not love yourself, no one else will.
Until Next Week,
Love and Light,
Linda and The Lulas xxx
