HELLO READERS
Happiness is the highest form of success, so make a point of living your best life. Treat yourself like someone who matters because you are more than enough. You can’t pour from an empty cup, so fill yours up to the brim first because if you don’t, others won’t. How you treat and care for yourself sets a precedence for how others are expected to treat you. If you fail to respect yourself, others will walk all over you like a doormat, so start rewriting the rules of life by putting down some extra firm boundaries. Say what you mean and mean what you say. If you don’t fulfil your obligations and promises, you won’t be taken seriously and often humoured and given lip service. If people don’t like you, then let them be going along their way. Never chase, beg nor seek validation. Never again lower your standards. The right people will always walk by your side. They won’t need any convincing nor persuading to be your friend.
Self-love is a game changer. It is a journey, not the finishing line. Everything starts in the mind as our thoughts are so powerful that they have they complete influence our speech, behaviour and actions. Once you change your thinking about anything, a set of circumstances begin to take on a new complexion because you are willing to view things from an alternative perspective.
You have the power to heal your life by wanting to be helped, or not. It’s so easy to just give in and stop fighting, believing you are a hopeless lost cause when just the opposite is true. Some people remain stationary because they benefit more by not making the effort to instigate improvements and make something of their lives, so they do absolutely nothing whilst wasting away. There is always a hidden agenda although they would never admit it.
You are capable of achieving many great things, but let’s face it, the chances are that you are not going to do any of them unless you decide to. We all have choices, and accompanying our decisions are consequences. Cause and effect. Whatever we initially cause by our daily living standards and behavioural habits will inevitably have an impact upon our health and wellbeing either positively or negatively. When you gaze into a mirror, your reflection is essentially who and what you have created yourself to be by making a series of choices. Any discontent, frustration, happiness or optimism you may feel is entirely of your own making because reality is a projection of your thoughts, and they in turn, have the power to manifest and become real. As we think, so we become. The state of our living space is a reflection of what is going on internally in our thoughts and projected outwardly.
Healing is a natural process that cannot be rushed because nature must be allowed to take its course. Everything takes time, so there is nothing to be accomplished by behaving impatiently except overthinking and feeling overwhelmed. Make a conscious decision to let go of toxicity by detaching yourself from anything or anyone that is most definitely not good for your mental, emotional, spiritual and physical wellbeing. It’s about putting yourself first rather than finding yourself at the bottom of the food chain. It is not possible to help others if you are not in a good place yourself. The only time you fail is when you fall down and decide to stay down, and then you will find that most people will treat you as though you are invisible and walk right past you. Start being your own best friend.
We can only discover our true strengths and what we are capable of achieving through hardship, sacrifice and struggle as we continue along our spiritual journey. Never accept being told that something cannot be done because that is their opinion, not yours. If you believe in yourself, anything is possible. Believe something can be done and the universe will aspire to make your dreams become a reality.
When you connect to the silence within your soul, then this is when you begin to recognise the noises and disturbances surrounding you. It’s precisely at that point when you get to choose the calibre of the company you keep, so always be selective and choose wisely because what we are, we attract towards us, and what we repel is not to be encouraged nor entertained at any price. Always put a healthy distance between yourself and anything that could potentially harm you.
‘self-love is
a revolution
that every atom
in your body is
marching for.
If all the
Things I own,
My worth is my
Prized possession.’
Love and light,
Linda and The Lulas xxx
