HELLO READERS
If you have a strong purpose in life, you don’t have to be pushed or cajoled because your passion and determination will drive you there. Never march to the beat of someone else’s drum. The person who follows the crowd will usually go no further than the crowd. When they walk alone, they are far more likely to find themselves in places no one has ever ventured before. Always remember that the crowd who applauds your success is the same one that will relish your downfall. Be your own person by refusing to live by another person’s definition of happiness.
Sensitives and empathetic creatures feel everything more deeply than cold blooded types. They wear their burdens upon their shoulders and keep their secrets to themselves, often weeping alone when it all gets too much to bear. They keep their walls high to protect their heart. It takes a very long time for them to be completely open with someone because they don’t want to appear vulnerable to all the prowling predators out there in the wilderness of loss and bleak living searching for a rich capture. You may soon begin to notice that real people barely have any friends. They surround themselves only with the truest of souls. They class the crowd and hangers on as acquaintances. No person can fill the void of you not loving yourself. One of the main aspects of being quiet and reserved is that the other people can soon fill your silence with their own interpretations, speculations and versions of amateur dramatics. When others can’t read us well, they tend to write their own story, but not always accurately because what they don’t know they invent as they go along.
Introverts don’t need more, they need less. Fewer people, minimal distractions and disturbances, zero chaos and none of other people’s continuous complaining and complications. To escape the rat race and live a life of purpose, plans must be precisely engineered and executed, otherwise once others get a whiff of what is going on, they too will want to jump on the bandwagon. Their aim is to create and rebuild a new life away from the toxicity and negativity whilst working on actualising their highest potential as individuals who are fully aware and in control of their own lives. If you ever hurt an introvert, they don’t just hold grudges, they will slowly remove you from their orbit by giving out a strong message of seen and read texts, but ignored, missed calls and cancelled plans, dismissed as though you never even existed. They don’t want confrontation nor feeble excuses, only the truth. The message clearly states that you are no longer welcome.
Your heart is not a playground, so tell people to go and play elsewhere. The two signs of not knowing your worth is settling for second best and tolerating the unacceptable. True and genuine friends are more interested in beautiful souls than image and money. They are unimpressed by your bank balance or how much your house is worth. They care more about where you are from and where you are going. They will give unquestionable loyalty whilst the dross of society spectacularly fall from grace by the wayside. It is your genuineness towards them which counts for everything. They want to feel they can trust you in their mystical world of wonderful things and happenings. Take them for granted just once, at your peril, because once they leave, they are gone forever without leaving a forwarding address.
You are not the darkness you endured; you are the light that never gave up. You were born with everything you need to answer the call of your soul and of the wild. Keep yourself private because outside energy can often ruin beautiful things.
‘Very private people never take their traps down
not even when you’re ensnared
Very private people love and never say a word
even when it’s over they keep on loving
for they love secrets most of all
Very private people are grievously wounded
and live on never showing it
They grin so big, they talk so boisterously
They drink alone, they remember who made them
Very private people’
Love and light,
Linda and the Lulas xxx
