Hello Readers,
Over a period of time we become the collective personality of those to whom we grow the closest to. Their spirituality, mental and emotional levels and interests become part of ours, and we in turn help to shape their world. We influence each other by our outlook, philosophies, behaviour, lifestyle and opinions. Always make a point of surrounding yourself with people who embody all the qualities you value in another individual. People’s vibes, mindsets and attitudes will have great bearing and influence on the choices you act out real life scenarios. Choose friends whose thoughts and actions display good character, social conscience, self-respect and integrity. Who you spend time with the most is who you will gradually emulate as they will also be affected by you. We all learn important lessons and information from one another both good and bad. It’s important that you surround yourself with positive, responsible and respectable people of high moral standing. You can never aim too high, only too low. Always guard your reputation well and never let anyone bring you down to their level.
Our journey through life can be very complicated at times. Who we are evolving into is ever changing. We never stop growing and always continually changing. You may have probably heard someone make a joke about a pet coming to look like its owner, or vice versa. Even though this is usually a light-hearted observation, there’s something to be said for taking on the qualities of those we hang out with. If the people we surround ourselves with are upbeat, kind, happy, and uplifting, they energy will have an effect on our lives. But if your mood has plummeted lately, or simply not been as good as it should be, take a look around you as to some of the company you are keeping. You can alter your outlook by altering where and with whom you are spending your time. The less you associate with certain people, the more enriched your life will be. Any time you tolerate mediocrity in others, it increases your mediocrity.
An important attribute in successful people is their intolerant of negative thinking people. As you develop new interests, your associates will change because you automatically outgrow them to the point where you no longer share the same interests nor feel able to communicate on similar levels. Some of your friends will not want you to go on towards the sunset without them. They will want you to stay where they are being that will be more comfortable for them, not you. Friends that don’t help you climb will want you to see you crawl. Your true friends will help stretch your vision, not serve to choke your dreams. Those that don’t increase themselves will eventually systematically decrease you.
Never receive counsel from unproductive people and negativism, nor discuss your problems with someone incapable of contributing to the solution or able to keep private information confidential. Those who never succeed themselves are always first to criticise. Not everyone has a right to speak into your life. You are certain to get the worst of the bargain when you exchange ideas with the wrong person. Don’t follow anyone who’s not going anywhere. Leave them to their own devices and move on.
A wise person is someone who fortifies their life with the right friendships. If you run with wolves, you will learn how to howl, but if you associate with eagles, you
will learn how to soar to great heights. A mirror reflects an person’s face, but what they are really like is shown by the kind of friends they chooses to associate with.
Your vibe attracts your tribe.
Love and Light,
Linda and The Lulas xxx
