Hello Readers,

 

Are we a nation of snoopers?

Intensive research undertaken in the UK as proven that nosey neighbours make up ten percent of suburbia.

We have all hear stories of jealous neighbours watching the more successful resident with envy and jealousy.

Normally these types of people live unfulfilled lives and have debt and money issues of their own.

Instead of finding solutions to their own problems they enjoy making trouble for others.

They will find the slightest thing to complain about and if nothing can be found they will make something up.

Often they will complain about your visitors not parking opposite their homes (not their drives) because it may cause problems if they want to get their car off the drive.

What these people forget is if the visitor’s car isn’t blocking their drives and the car is taxed and insured they have no right to make such outranges requests.

Curtain twitches according to the urban dictionary is someone with nothing better to do than spy on a neighbour for signs of petty wrong doing.

In all honesty these types are more to be pitied than blamed and what sad and empty lives they must have if to fill the void they have moan and groan about the most insignificant of things.

A self-employed friend of mine, who works from home, was fully aware that one of her neighbours was tallying up her weekly earnings by counting the number of visitors that passed through her door each day. How much more productive this neighbours life could have been if she had found a way to fix her own problems and made her own life more rewarding.

.....My clients have often complained to me about the weird mind-set of some of their neighbours. They have received ‘text messages’, even notes through the door as a way of attention seeking or orchestrating a confrontation.

My advice to anyone who is struggling with such a difficult situation is this. Don’t rise to the bait....don’t acknowledge any communication. Hold your head up high and simple ‘blank them out’...’starve them of oxygen’...sooner or later, when realisation kicks in because you are not playing the game they will run out of ideas about how to aggravate you.. Done make the mistake of allowing anyone to know that they have upset you because once you do, they will only invent even more excuses to get under your skin...all the more…..so hold onto your power, never ever let it go.

No one likes to be ignored, so in this case, silence really is golden. Silence speaks volumes. A still tongue keeps a wise head.

And on a final note...remember, what goes around comes around...it’s only a matter of time before ‘Roosters go home to roost’....we live in a very small world, gossip and news travels....and it’s always the troublemakers who end up digging holes deeper and deeper for themselves...because that is what they do best, after all, they have had plenty of practice haven’t they?
 

Until next week ................................

 

Love and light.