Its Not Who Holds You Back, Its What You Think You Are Not

Hello Readers,

Do you sometimes think that your life deserves bigger, better and more in abundance? Then why are you still holding yourself back from enjoying success and happiness? It’s not that you are incapable of feeling complete and emotionally fulfilled, it’s more a case of you holding another person at arm’s length, just far enough away because you feel mistrustful and undeserving of it. It’s when you stop yourself from trying too hard to reach your goals because you lack the confidence and self belief needed to arrive at the finishing line.

There is nothing more complicated nor troublesome than human relationships. It’s knowing how to be that can prove the most difficult. You are told to always be yourself, but do you really know who you are?

Love may be harder to find in some people, but when they open their heart and mind, expressing their love, then you know it must be something really special and marvellous. To burn with desire and keep quiet about it is the greatest punishment and self inflicted pain we can bring upon ourselves. What’s worse than knowing you want something besides knowing you can never have it. Unrequited love doesn’t die, it’s buried in a secret place where it lies there curled up and wounded with many words unspoken and feelings unshared. If you don’t receive love from those who are meant to love you, then you will spend an eternity searching for it. Spend your time with those who truly love you unconditionally instead of wasting it on those who will only give you the time of day when the conditions are right for them.

Let no one who loves be altogether unhappy. Even love unreturned has its rainbow. In the same way, if at first you don’t succeed, never stop trying even harder, but do the only sensible thing and start banging on different doors rather than the ones which are bolted and locked showing no promise. Believe in yourself enough to know that there is always something new and worth having a round the next corner. All you have to do is be patient because when the time is right, everything that is meant to be will happen, perhaps not exactly what you wanted or expected, but all that is right for you along your journey of spiritual self development. But also be mindful that nothing can last forever and that endings are inevitable. People and things are only meant to be with us for a certain period of time and this is why it’s so important to be at peace with ourselves.

Love and light,

Linda and The Lulas xxx