Linda Lancashire Psychic

Regaining Control

Hello Readers,

You only have control over three things in your life, the thoughts you think, the images you visualise and the actions you take. If you don’t take control of your own life, someone else will and will think nothing about keeping you captive and dependent on them. Control of your life starts with controlling your mind and by regulating the thoughts that you choose to dwell upon. Your thoughts determine your actions, and your actions determine the quality of life that you choose to live.

Incredible change happens in your life when you decide to take control of what you do instead of constantly craving control over what you don’t and cannot have. No one is in control of your happiness but you, therefore, you have the power to change anything about yourself or your life that you want to change, but first, you have to want to. No one has power over you unless you give it to them. You are in control of your life and your choices decide and determine your own fate. You cannot mould another person into becoming what you want them to be, and similarly, they cannot mould you into changing you either, although so many people try and fail.

Never allow anyone to control what you do in your life. Your choices, your consequences. No one has power over you unless you give it to them and if you are guilty of this, it’s time to stop completely and take personal responsibility by reclaiming your power and reinstating your sanity once more.

The need for control always comes from someone that has previously lost it and attempts to inflict and influence others with their unhappiness and failures.

Rarely does anything run smoothly for long. There are always moments in life when everything is turned upside down, inside out and back to front. What is real suddenly becomes unreal and what is unreal becomes tangible. It is during these surreal times when it’s vitally important not to lose sight of reality.

There may be moments when you find yourself clinging tightly to someone or something in an attempt to project manage every aspect. Perhaps you think that it is right to always be in charge, yet when you try to act this way, what is really happening is that you’re attracting vibrations to your world which create endless anxiety and worry for fear of not being good enough, or looking foolish when things go wrong. When this happens, it is favourable to let go of what you cannot rule and stay optimistically on top of what you can comfortably handle. You are encouraged to figure out what you are best at and use that as a starting point. If you are unhappy with the situation you are currently in, change it because you are in control of your own life.

No one saves us but ourselves. No one can and no one may. we ourselves must walk the path of destiny. Today is the first day of your life and only you posses the key to your heart.

Love and light,

Linda and the Lulas xxx

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