Linda Lancashire Psychic

Be Your Own Person

By Linda Lancashire | Published: March 28, 2018

Hello Readers,

Have the confidence to be your own person. You don’t have to blend in with the people around you. Create your own brand and work on developing being your own person. Your beliefs do not make you a better person, your behaviour does.

In order for you for you to live the life you truly want to, you first have to work on cultivating the ability of relying absolutely and totally on yourself. One of the biggest mistakes and causes of many problems is that some people are so insecure and suffer from such a very low self-esteem that they are completely dependent on others for all kinds of things to the point where they become completely reliant on others to make them happy because they fail to realise that all the answers they are search for are within their own selves. So can you imagine what happens next when a relationship or friendship breaks down? The dependent person goes into complete melt down and is afraid of being in their own company, mainly because they don’t like nor love themselves enough to make the effort to stand on their own two feet and start over again. They conveniently forget or disbelieve that there are people who genuinely care about them, but sometimes, even that is not enough. Sometimes, nothing will satisfy the demands, wants and needs.

Self-reliance is one of the most important attributes that you can develop. With powerful, healthy levels of self-reliance, you will never again allow yourself to be controlled or manipulated by anyone else because once you learn to love yourself first and foremost and stand strongly and independently in your own space, you will win the admiration and respect that you richly deserve from others, including those who tried to bring you down to their level but failed to. True self-reliance will leave you glowing with confidence and inspire others to follow your lead because they will think if you can do it, they can also do it, and the majority of them, in turn, will learn from your excellent example.

People who are comfortable with themselves stand out in a crowd and in doing so they have developed a happy and healthy relationship with both themselves and others.

Exist on your own terms, that’s all.

Until next Week,

Linda and The Lulas xxx

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