Hello Readers,
All people have three lives, public, private and secret and sometimes solitude and living and uninterrupted life free from stress can be more appealing than forever being immersed in other people’s dramas.
The older we get the more we realise the value of our privacy and the importance of cultivating our social circle by only inviting certain people to join us, by appointment only . True friends never spy on one another because they don’t need to if there is respect and trust in their relationship. Friendship is about privacy too and it’s important to always maintain our independence and individuality because often, too much familiarity breeds contempt, suspicion and jealousy.
Sometimes just to be left alone to enjoy some much-deserved personal space, peace and quiet can be most healing and good for the soul. It allows you to rest a while and revitalise your ailing energy levels.
Always remember that you were once alone and the people you see in your life today are just as unnecessary in your life now as they were when you were alone. You had a life before you knew them and will continue to live without them once they have gone. We are born alone and we will die alone and what happens in between is incidental and soon forgotten by others.
Privacy is not something that you are merely entitled to, it’s an absolute prerequisite because it’s like eating and breathing, one of life’s basic requirements. Reading a book and other similar interests are very private pursuits because they happen in places that exclude others, allowing us to just be ourselves.
You can be open, honest and friendly whilst realising at the same time that not everyone deserves a seat at the table of your life.
Most people don’t know the half of it and haven’t a clue about who you really are, but neither do they need to know. The less you reveal, the more you will make them wonder and question and the less they know, so much better for you. Keep your relationships and friendships private , where no one outside your innermost sanctum knows anything about you and that way you will avoid being misjudged and misunderstood. Never tell anyone your story unless you want
them to be part of it.
The key to being revered and respected is by keeping private, discreet and shrouded by a cloak of mystery. By not giving away too much information nor sharing your deepest, innermost secrets, you won’t lose your power nor weaken your position in the human jungle of life because we all have chapters in our book of life we would rather keep unpublished.
LOVE AND LIGHT,
LINDA AND THE LULAS XXX
