Hello Readers,
You will never have enough until you are grateful for what you do have. It is impossible to count your blessings while you are counting your curses and the things with which you need or want to be blessed with and even, they won’t be enough. It is not bad to be selfish as your first responsibility is to take care of yourself. It is only when you are at peace and satisfied with yourself that can you make others feel happy. Sensible people never compare themselves with others as they are satisfied with what they have, what they do and who they are. They have a feeling of completeness because they know that they are enough for themselves. Once you know this, nothing else matters nor does anything nor anyone have the power to bring you down.
When a situation is wrong for you it is important to recognise this and take steps to distance yourself from any toxicity. There are dignified ways of executing the ‘graceful exit.’ It begins with the vision to recognise when a job, a life stage, or a relationship is finished and let it go. It means leaving what is over and done with peacefully, without denying its validity or its past importance, but it does not warrant staying in a set of circumstances that could potentially make you ill and suffer needlessly. It involves developing a sense of future and a belief that every exit line is an entry to a new beginning, indicating that you are moving up, rather than out. Self -preservation and survival are our strongest instincts. Protect your energy and wellness by staying away from lazy parasites, those who insist on perching on you just to satisfy their needs. They do not come to alleviate your burdens because their real mission is to distract, detract and extract, resulting in you living in abject poverty in more ways than bears thinking about.
There are two ways to get enough of anything. One is to continue to accumulate more and more of what you already have and the other is to desire less and be content with what cannot be bought on the open market. You don’t get to choose if and when you get hurt in this world, but you do have some say in who hurts you, the ones you give full permission to nearly break you. We all have choices regarding whom we befriend and those we have no care about forming an association with. Maybe those who have condemned you are secretly fearful of you, which explains their behaviour.
True happiness is to enjoy the present, without anxious dependence upon the future and not to amuse ourselves with either hopes or fears, but to rest satisfied with what we have, which is nearly always more than sufficient. The greatest blessings are within us and within our reach, we just need to open our eyes to see them. A person of wisdom is content with their lot, whatever it may be, without wishing for what is not their destiny to have. Never lower your spiritual frequencies to accommodate those that wallow and wander around in the darkness. You never have to worry about having the last laugh unless you have been laughing all the time.
Always ensure that you have as much as you need. Anyone who eats their seeds today will be hungry tomorrow because they have spent their lot and have nothing left to plant and worse still, nothing to harvest later. Happiness is not a goal, it’s a way of life well lived.
‘Like time suspended,
a wound unmended–
you and I.
We had no ending,
no said goodbye;
For all my life,
I’ll wonder why’.
Love and light,
Linda and The Lulas xxx
