Hello Readers,
Knowing when to let go and when to hang to something is true wisdom. Some things are just meant to let go of because it’s time for you to move forwards and get on with living your life. It takes courage to grow up and know who you really are and what it takes to make you feel happy with the choices you are making. Life is too short to waste any amount of time wondering what other people think about you because that mindset is going to get you precisely nowhere fast. Our lives can change in a split second over which none of us have any control, but what does emerge out of every trauma is that we experience ‘change’. Events like these happen when our lives transform so much that certain people find us unrecognisable and dislike the changes that we instigate, probably because we are no longer of any entertainment value to them. We are no longer telling them what they want to hear or doing things their way. You will slowly begin to notice that their choice is to remain stuck in the same old rut, doing the same old things day in and day out, whilst we have most likely shrugged off our old bad habits and started developing new and better ones that include ‘self-care’. There are a lot of people who are afraid of making changes because it also means that they have to start living a completely new and different life that also means ‘getting a life’. They find it difficult to keep up with the ‘new and more real you’, because if they are completely honest, they preferred things as they were before. They are not prepared to learn anything new that you may have to teach them so they choose to remain in the shadows, but that does not mean that you have to do the same.
Making that decision to break away has got nothing to do with you being ‘Billy No Mates’ or anti-social, it’s about you taking charge and personal responsibility for your own life and choosing wisely whom you will consider associating with. It’s about you finally listening to your gut instincts regarding certain people and having the foresight and strength of character to take action and do something about eliminating all that is toxic out of your world.
How many times have you heard people telling you about having a good ‘clear out?’ None of it belongs in their future, so what is point of hanging onto something that is well past its sell by date?
Always remember that if you have had to cut someone out of your life, they have probably given you the scissors.
Until Next Week,
Love and Light,
Linda and The Lulas xxx
